10 Dec 2013
18 Oct 2013
Liberty of Mind...
It's so great that mind is develop in a special way that tends to control man activities and feeling, but we control the mind and keep ourselves in the challenge of what we can do or not, the mind in its unique form is meant to be free but through it we can achieve milestone
6 Oct 2013
MY CAREER OR FAMILY CAREER
Came to earth on that very special day, Noting do i know about where am coming, then i grow to see a lady as my mama cuddling me from time to time, there comes a man with strong face, throws me up once a while and hardly see him. I was forced to stand alone, little do i know independce start from there.
I grow to see that we have different class in the society, i was trained by my father to be discipline and my mother thought me how to be proactive and respectful, this are element of success and good living.
On my path to good life, i love great and good things but my background holds alot back from me.....
I wish to do this and that,at which i solicit for help, but they ask, who are you or who are parents, this affect alot about me, because i have dream and i can see it becoming real, but could not actualise it cox my parent are not rich or influential......Have not retire the quest of making it in life.
But my question is that can't they believe in my dream without asking about
ME OR MY FAMILY....I need your opinion
4 Oct 2013
SPEAK UP!... WHEN THE TIME BECKONS.
Staying quiet to keep the peace can be a good thing,
but if the peace has already been disturbed, staying
quiet won't make anything better. Summon your
courage and speak up when you feel the need to.
30 Sept 2013
GRADUATES BEING OUTCLASSED BY NON GRADUATES!
Having read the article posted by Validplanet on 28th of this month on nairaland I
still find it very difficult to comprehend why our graduates still don't get befitting
jobs. I copied out some of the interesting and educating comments for your digest.
I advise you read this and put up your comment on our wall to educate somebody
today
Ngwakwe: Most of those people you called non-graduates and illiterate are
graduate-artisans with multi skills capabilities having learnt and worked with so
many experts and trainers in one field of endeavour or the other. Moreover, almost
all of them did complete their JS3 School programmes and cannot be categorically
called illiterate. I will advise most classroom-graduates to join them in the
meantime and until your luck shines (you get your dream job).
Wizee: Relax, u angry bcoz u've not goting a job yet. You have to b positive abt life,
going to school doesn't guarantee u job bt is an added advantage. Hope u have seen
2/3 storey built by dis so called illiterates colaps! Why? Bcoz they can't diff btw a
quality and quantity. Thats where d civil engineers cum in. Why can't this illiterates
build skyscraper? So Relax
Afam4eva: You don't get jobs because you're literate but because you're educated.
These people you're referring to as illiterates(whatever that means) educated
themselves in a particular field and are the best for the job. The fact that you're a
university graduate(not necessarily educated) does not mean you're better than
those people. It really sucks to be a Nigerian graduate cos all they teach you is to
graduate and go get a job. Your job is to find solutions to real life problems.
To read the full gist, go to:
http://www.nairaland.com/1457330/unemployment-non-graduates-cheating-
graduates-nigeria?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter
29 Sept 2013
WHAT IS PERFECT?
- The quality or state of being perfect or complete, so that nothing requisite is wanting; entire development; consummate culture, skill, or moral excellence; the highest attainable state or degree of excellence; maturity; as, perfection in an art, in a science, or in a system; perfection in form or degree; fruits in perfection. - A quality, endowment, or acquirement completely excellent; an ideal; faultlessness; especially, the divine attribute of complete excellence.
- To perfection, in the highest degree of excellence; perfectly; as, to imitate a model to perfection.
I have fleet of cars, state of heart home in various locations around the country, prosperous business and still, we all want is the best.
when we reach obsolete,then we say is this the best i can do?
What is perfect?
How do u define perfection?
PEOPLE CAN BE PUSHY
When you feel good -- or at least OK -- about yourself
-- you won't really care what others say about you or
about what you "are." When you need to get things
accomplished to make your life better, you have to do
what you have to do to get it done. People will say that
you can't do it, that it can't be done, and that you're
doing it all wrong. So what? You can either listen to
others who are telling you discouraging things to keep
you from doing what you need to do, or you can
"listen" to what you need to do, which is telling you to
just do it and ignore what others are saying to you.
Who or what are you giving your ear to?
28 Sept 2013
RISK A MESS!
To make a masterpiece, you have to risk making a
mess.
The point is: Life is messy. Achieving an important
goal, accomplishing something that's worthwhile and
valuable to you, or creating a "great" situation in your
life is often not at all a neat and tidy process. It may
not be a smooth process. It probably won't be a simple
process. It might not be easy. It's likely that it won't
happen overnight. It may be quite complicated,
actually. It could be that in the process of making that
"masterpiece" in your life, you make a few "messes"
along the way. As a matter of fact, some messes can
happen that are not even of your own making. The
messes are made just as a result of the process of
making that masterpiece, getting it made, and having it
become a "finished product." The messes that occur
along the way in the making of your masterpiece really
don't matter much. All you need to do -- or all that
you CAN do -- is just clean them up as you go. The
messes are simply evidence of the work you're doing,
and they don't detract from the value of the finished
product. When all is said and done, what's going to
matter, what's really important? The process of making
your masterpiece doesn't need to be perfect, neat and
tidy. In fact, the fact that it was a messy process and
you made your way through it will make the product
that much more valuable to you. Remember that the
result what is most important, and it's what people
will remember, not the little messes that were made
along the way to the result
WHO IS WRONG?
WALK TALL
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living
someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma -
which is living with the results of other people's
thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions
drown out your own inner voice. And most
important, have the courage to follow your heart
and intuition.
27 Sept 2013
ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS!
When you're aware of your flaws and shortcomings, you
can change them if you choose to. When you
acknowledge your own flaws, no one can point their
blameful finger at you. You can't be shamed when
you're not full of shame.
In other words, you don't have to hide your
shortcomings. Everyone has at least one, and no one is
"perfect," without blemish. So don't try to deny your
flaws. Instead, take "proud" ownership of them because
you've recognized them, you've acknowledged them
and you're working diligently to eliminate them. When
you're willing to be honest, you will have nothing to
hide from others or even from yourself. You don't have
to feel insecure or guilty about any negative character
traits, personality defects or bad habits that you're
working on improving or ridding yourself of. This same
philosophy applies to any personal characteristics you
have that others perceive to be negative, simply because
that's their personal opinion or belief.
Remember that no one can throw your shortcomings in
your face when you're open about them -- and
especially when you're actually comfortable with your
having them. They can try to make you feel inferior in
some way -- because their intention is not to help you,
but to make themselves appear superior to you and to
make you feel bad -- but they will be completely
unsuccessful in their goal. When you're honest and
open, others can't use your flaws against you. They
can't hurt you, anger you, embarrass you or bring you
down by bringing your flaws up and pointing them out
to you or about you to anyone else.
No one can accuse you of having something you've
already openly and honestly claimed clear ownership of.
You have nothing to be ashamed about since you're not
trying to hide a flaw, and you therefore have nothing
shameful to hide. Imperfections are not shameful
anyway. Anything you've identified honestly within
yourself (and to others that you affect) that you don't
feel good about can be changed, with attention, effort
and work. Honest work is nothing to be ashamed of,
and it's nothing to shame others for
26 Sept 2013
YOUR MOTIVATION; YOUR RESPONSIBILITY
I realized again just how simple life can be if you put
the right processes in place. i realized that me staying
motivated revolves around a few basic things that i do.
and they are things that anybody can do. So if I can
stay motivated, you can too!
If you want to stay motivated, try these basics that I
use to keep myself motivated:
Read good books and magazines, be an information
junkie. Don’t care what people say; you cannot be
successful without reading! I read books, magazines etc
all of the time. I read a breadth of information so as to
develop myself on a wide variety of topics. Keep
reading them on a regular basis throughout the month
and not just in reading binges.
Listen to good information. Get yourself into some
good tapes. Listen to what others have to say. Give
yourself a budget to spend on materials that will make
you into a motivated animal! Above all as you listen,
apply the truths in your head to your life and they will
become what you live!
Maintain a positive group of friends and colleagues.
One of the best things you can do is to surround
yourself with positive people who will build you up and
encourage you to pursue your dreams. They will be
honest with you, yes, but they will always challenge to
shoot for the stars!
Focus clearly on my goals. I know where I am going
and what I want to accomplish. They are firmly rooted
in my mind and heart. Because of this, my mind and
heart are in an attitude of motivation all of the the
time. I want to hit my goals and since they are present
in my mind and heart, I put my energies into them.
Discipline myself to live out my priorities. Most of the
time it takes plain old work. We have to discipline
ourselves and as we do we find ourselves becoming
more and more motivated. If we discipline ourselves, it
gives us wins and victories, which makes us feel good,
which motivates us for further action. If we don’t
discipline ourselves, we feel defeated and we fall into a
downward spiral of despair.
Are you keeping yourself motivated? You can. I know
you can because I have seen these principles and
actions work in my own life and the lives of the
brightest mind of the world. Take a moment right now
and see if you are living out the principles for keeping
motivated:
Do you regularly read good books and magazine? Do
you regularly listen to good materials? Do you
surround yourself with positive and supportive people?
Do you know and focus on your goals? Do you
discipline yourself to action even when you don’t feel
life it?
Commit yourself to these and you will find that you
will become a much more motivated person…..
Upward and onward my fellas!!!
NYSC
Its becoming almost impossible to know those that are called fresh graduate, you finish this year, you serve next year, you spend another one year for the programme...
Then, when you are out you wonder when you finish and when you are eligible to work, all in the name of NYSC Certificate.....
Another thing is that employers beef you, when you have what they did not attain
what are we to do now?
NIGERIA: WHERE ARE THE ROLE MODELS
I SEE WHERE WATER HEALS
Not by Size
Its not by size.....challenge your dream
25 Sept 2013
MOVE ON
Strong Wall Shakes
We all acknowledge the rich and the strong, the fact is that they rise from the the bottom of the ladder, while the comfort at the unstable top makes them feel the urge to remain and strive for the balance.
We all have the dream to be strong, are you away from your comfort zone, are you working towards making it perfect, you have to live your life for the best till we meet at the Top.
